Look, love, you know that I hate it when you two fight, but I hate it even more when it feels like the fight has something to do with me. And I don't mean in the "you'll ruin Charlie's birthday" sort of way, and you'd better believe I gave him a right telling off for that as soon as you'd left.
If you're upset with him over something, tell him. Don't use me as an excuse. I know everyone's on edge right now, but I said right up front when we started all this: I won't get between you two. And I won't let either of you shove me there, either, no matter how hard you try. I love you both, but you two are the ones who need to sort this out, and not use me as a reason to pick at each other.
And if this isn't working for you, you just have to tell me. I know this was your idea in the first place, but I won't be at all offended if you decide it's time to move on. Honest. I'd rather keep you both as friends than have this whole thing go down in flames, yeah?
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Private Message to Deirdre ní Mháille
Date: 2012-12-13 02:21 am (UTC)If you're upset with him over something, tell him. Don't use me as an excuse. I know everyone's on edge right now, but I said right up front when we started all this: I won't get between you two. And I won't let either of you shove me there, either, no matter how hard you try. I love you both, but you two are the ones who need to sort this out, and not use me as a reason to pick at each other.
And if this isn't working for you, you just have to tell me. I know this was your idea in the first place, but I won't be at all offended if you decide it's time to move on. Honest. I'd rather keep you both as friends than have this whole thing go down in flames, yeah?